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Flattery is telling the other person precisely what he thinks about himself
Flattery is telling the other person precisely what he thinks about himself
 No adulation; 'tis the death of virtue;
 Who flatters, is of all mankind the lowest
  Save he read more 
 No adulation; 'tis the death of virtue;
 Who flatters, is of all mankind the lowest
  Save he who courts the flattery. 
 By God, I cannot flatter, I do defy
 The tongues of soothers! but a braver place
  In read more 
 By God, I cannot flatter, I do defy
 The tongues of soothers! but a braver place
  In my heart's love hath no man than yourself.
   Nay, task me to my word; approve me, lord. 
When Fortune flatters, she does it to betray.
When Fortune flatters, she does it to betray.
What really flatters a man is that you think him worth flattering.
What really flatters a man is that you think him worth flattering.
 Of praise a mere glutton, he swallow'd what came,
 And the puff a dunce, he mistook it for fame;
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 Of praise a mere glutton, he swallow'd what came,
 And the puff a dunce, he mistook it for fame;
  Till his relish grown callous, almost to displease,
   Who pepper'd the highest was surest to please. 
 What drink'st thou oft, instead of homage sweet,
 But poisoned flattery?  
 What drink'st thou oft, instead of homage sweet,
 But poisoned flattery? 
 Where Young must torture his invention
 To flatter knaves, or lose his pension.  
 Where Young must torture his invention
 To flatter knaves, or lose his pension. 
To be a man's own fool is bad enough; but the vain man is everybody's.
To be a man's own fool is bad enough; but the vain man is everybody's.